Lots has happened since I last penned a blogpost. Most of which, happened in August.
1. When I grow up, I wanted to get married.
On the 9th of August 2014, I married my high school sweetheart/ better half, Akmal Khadir. Needless to say, the wedding was a whirlwind. With back-to-back events, from the nikah to 3 separate receptions, it was a wonder how both of us and my family had any time to catch a breath. But it happened, and it was amazing. I had anxiety beforehand not knowing what it would be like to be "the bride." Was I to be elegant and poised? Because I would have failed at that in the first minute! But all anxiety went away when our family and friends did nothing but pour Akmal & I with buckets and buckets of love. Akmal managed to also validate our marriage in one go, which also helped!
The nikah took place in my childhood home, followed by a backyard reception filled with twinkly fairy lights. I would like to say it felt like home, but it really didn't. With the change towards a more gorgeous and elegant decor, it more resembled a castle fit for kings. The next day, Akmal's family (literally) rallied together and prepared a feast for the hundreds at his childhood home in KL. Many of our friends came and it was nice to be finally acquainted with his family. It was a breath of fresh air seeing the neighbours coming together to cook, decorate and clean up afterwards. The event resonated with love and friendship. And that night, we got to relax with my new in-laws. Definitely, a good end to the weekend.
Then Janda Baik happened the following weekend. It has always been my childhood dream to celebrate my wedding at Janda Baik. Having grown up with holidays spent in Janda Baik, the place is filled with fond memories. And of course, the Janda Baik home was built by my late Embahyah which made it that much more special. With the grace of Allah swt, my wish was granted and it was beyond magical.
It was like I was dreaming whilst being awake. Our beloved wedding planner, Uncle Zul planned everything so beautifully from the garden-themed photobooth to my gorgeous flower crown. The bridesmaids and groomsmen looked so elegant, and not only did many guests make the (long) journey but they also made an effort to dress up! Everything about that day brought us joy. From our marital entrance accompanied by Harry Connick Jr in the background and flower petals thrown at us by our cherished guests; to the touching speeches by my parents, the maid of honour and bestman; to the short game Akmal & I played; to the fireworks at the very end of the day - I couldn't have dreamed of a day any more beautiful. We feel so blessed, constantly pinching ourselves to make sure that the experiences were real.
To all future brides out there, one advise I would give to make sure you have a wonderful wedding is family. My family (new and old) came together for us, and it was what it was because of them and their hard work. So be kind to them, and everything will fall in place, inshaAllah.
As you can tell, my family is exceptional. They (including my husband of course!) are truly the greatest gift from God.
Almost 2 months on, I can confidently report that the wedding bliss hasn't died down. Reminiscing on how we started 7 years ago with all the ups and downs in between, we are so thankful we finally made it down the aisle. I'm a happily married woman now! I have been swept off my feet, and have been grabbed off the market indefinitely, with my soulmate by my side. For now, nothing can be better. Alhamdulillah. I bow down to Allah swt, with utmost humility and gratitude.
All my love,
Mrs A
